Happiness is only real when shared. I hope you're happy today.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

胡志明市,这一趟旅程

          When I was reading newspaper while waiting dinner to be served, something triggered me to recall my 4D3N getaway to Ho Chi Minh City last month. I forgot what the trigger was, but I think this trip is somewhat special to me. 


          旅游的目的有很多:有些人为了疯狂购物,有些人为了治疗情伤,有些人为了工作,有些人为了逃避现实,有些人为了奖励自己,有些人为了体会“生活”这两个字。

          我一直希望能用“心”去体验旅游的每一点、每一滴。这一趟行程,我想是不错的开始。

          在街上,可以看见许多商店和酒店外都站着一位像是保安员的男人。我想,这里的治安有那么差吗?但这一些保安员身上都没有佩抢或任何武器,只是站或坐在店外,真的有这个需要吗?哎呀,忘了问酒店的接待员,或许可以得知一二。说到接待员,我还是第一次跟酒店的接待员聊天。因为除了酒店接待员,会说流利英文的人真是没几个。他还是大学生,就读英文系,明年就毕业了。

          让我好奇地是,胡志明市到底是贫穷或富有的?晚上经过星巴克,店里外都满座,而且都是当地人。早上走在街上,给我的感觉是,如果游客没了,这座城市可能会活不来。我想知道,在旅游的淡季 (导游说是5月-9月),这里会变成什么模样?此刻,又想起导游的话。她的故事,是这一趟行程最大的收获。

          每天,有五百万辆摩多骑在路上。太可怕了。也因为这样,我看见许多形形色色的面罩。这是这座城市别具一格的风情。但我可不想要尝试在这儿骑摩多,因为我非常确定我会被其他骑士咒死。他们的骑车技术我可能一生都学不来。当我走在人行道上,摩多会出现在你的身后,而我就得走快几步,以免阻碍他们。

          还有很多的故事可以写,但我有点倦了。是时候休息,为明天努力!

                                                                                                                                                 (持续)

Sunday, November 16, 2014

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, today is a gift

          I just came back from Ho Chi Minh City last Saturday night. It was a 4 days 3 nights getaway with a long-time friend. It was fun. The scenery and attractions was okay but the foods were amazing! Everyday I was looking forward to search for new foods. It was almost a food trip. In fact, I told my friend that this gonna be a food-craving trip. 








 



          But that's not all. I am also interested to get to know how people live their lives in this metropolitan city. To me, everyday is so happening in this city. There are approximately 5 million motorcycles on the road everyday. The population of Ho Chi Minh metropolitan area is around 9 millions, which means 55 % of citizens ride motorcycles. That's insane. My friend and I wandered around Districts 1 and 3 on foot from 8 a.m. till 10 p.m. everyday and we only saw several private cars. Others were just taxis and motorcycles. I wondered why there were a lot of motorcyclists during the weekdays. 

          We went to Cu Chi tunnels and Mekong Delta, just like rest of the tourists. The tour guide was a lady, in her 30s I guess. Her name is Tinh, means silent or quiet. She spoke fluent English. That's really good because we hardly found anyone that can speak fluent English. She told the tourists on the bus to be happy and always smile or laugh because we never know what will happen tomorrow. And she repeated the same statement several times. She always said that to the tourists, She said that Vietnam is a communist country. The government gives you everything you want, but also controls everything. When she said that, her voice was a bit sad though I am not sure whether it was real or she was having flu. I think that's the truest and most honest  statement of a communist country. Ho Chi Minh city's economics  is heavily dependent on tourism. She said that the 2008 global economic crisis hit the country, there were only 4 tourists on the bus in the month of October (October - April is the peak season of tourism). So when tourists stop going to the city, the tourism industry was almost dead. The travel agency, the bus driver, and taxi drive felt the impact most. "Tourists becoming less and less, don't know why.", she added. This time, I can feel the sadness in her voice and it was real. To her, the bus driver, and the taxi driver and those working closely in tourism industry, tourist (us) is their bread and butter. On the bus to Mekong Delta on the next day, again she gave us piece of advice to live happily and don't worry too much. At the end of the tour on the boat, she sang two songs. I do not know the first song, but the chorus goes like "...what will be, will be...". The second song was "The End of the World". Ironic, eh? 

           She earned USD $10 per day and she know if the next global crisis hit the country, the consequence is destructive, yet she understand that we need to live in present and stop worrying about the future or let the past continue to haunt us. Yet it's difficult for most people, including myself. Although I constantly remind myself to live everyday happily, yet I can't stop worrying. Someday I will reach the peace of mind. I will. 

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Monday, September 22, 2014

Eternal Love

I need to share this. It's too beautiful.

Can't stop tearing everytime watching this.



Sunday, September 14, 2014

美丽的事情

怎么说呢?我不爱哭,也不容易哭。

但,年纪越大,好像越容易感触。

而容易让我感触的也不过几个点:

亲情,爱情,离别。

脑海里,能够记得流泪过的情景有:

小学五或六年级的时候在电视看还珠格格凄美的爱情故事

看《花田少年史》最后一集

国民服务最后一天被周围的气氛感染

离开家到加拿大前想到家里的两个“小孩子”

在机场跟父母道别后

 Rowden & Leizel 催泪的婚礼


现在,我觉得

感触而流泪是美丽的事情。





Friday, August 22, 2014

离别

天下无不散之筵席。

离别,是必然的。

今天,知道又有一位同事要离职了。

心里不好受。

虽然共事短短的一年,

但非常欣赏他的能力与态度。

还有一个月,

正确来说是20个工作天,

就好好地一起办事吧!